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Thursday, December 29, 2011

starts tweeting!

Follow @abbybettyblog on Twitter! I have a lot of new ideas and I'm hoping to start blogging more often/regularly. Get excited! :D

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

fails to plan

I am back to not knowing exactly how to plan so we have enough healthy food for all of our meals for the week.

I started with meal -planning myself. This left me with way too much or too little food, leftovers that were too repetitive... With two people it is hard to cook four meals in a week. You will end up with way too many leftovers unless you do some major recipe-halving magic. If you cook two or three meals a week and try to eat leftovers, trust me, you will want something else by the time Thursday and Friday roll around.

I thought that http://www.thefresh20.com/ was the answer. We tried this for a while. This is a GREAT concept, but the recipes just aren't very tasty. After being burned several times-- buying all of the ingredients and making meals that were just too unappealing to eat--we ended up eating canned spaghetti sauce on pasta or going out for fast food more nights than I would have liked. I think for something like this to work it would have to be a lot more tailored to the preferences of the family (sounds a lot like meal-planning myself).

Lately I have been trying to get back to the gym. Until this week with a nasty cold, I have been pretty good about it, dutifully making the gym my first stop on the way home from work. This leaves me energized and feeling good about myself, but STARVING when I get home at 6 or7 p.m. and in no shape to whip up a home-cooked meal. We fell into our old rut of frozen entrees and eating out, so I tried http://www.myfitfoods.com/. This is a great crutch for weeks when you can't cook. It's pretty tasty, healthy food. It is reasonably priced ($60 bought us a week's worth of healthy dinners for way less than we would have paid eating out), but the food is a little too spicy and a little TOO healthy to be our everyday routine.

Here I am complaining, so let me use this four-step plan from this month's O Magazine:
1. Pushback: Planning myself week after week isn't working, and the easy ways out aren't tailored to our food preferences. They are too overly healthy for us to eat every day. I'm not interested in deprivation--we're not trying to lose weight, just be healthier and eat real food.
2. Possibilities: The most outrageously awesome possibility I can think of is having my own cooking classes (or maybe even a TV show!) for newlyweds and other newly grownups who need to learn to cook healthy everyday comfort food. It would be my full time job to plan out healthy meals, I would become awesome at it, and I would probably have a staff to cook my own recipes for me when I didn't feel like it ;).
3. Preferences: It seems like I prefer having the time to become more awesome at this. And I probably do. I think the secret is concentrating on the time that I WANT to spend cooking (and there is a lot of it) so we'll have something to eat when I DON'T want to cook. It could be a whole new project...
4. Pinpoints: These would be the little ways in which I could make the above happen. I can think of a couple:
a. spend time perfecting a few seasonal meal plans (3 each for winter, spring, summer, fall would cover a whole year!) that cater to our preferences. I could publish these here... maybe with some step-by-step instructions for basic techniques. The best way to learn to cook is to COOK! I have learned so much through Abby/Betty and this would be a good new project.
b. spend time when I do have time to cook making some easy, frozen, heat-uppable healthy meals for us. I like an idea from this month's issue of Martha Stewart Living (not yet available online that I can find) for making TV dinners to freeze--salisbury steak, mashed potatoes, spinach, berry crisp. This is exactly what I'm talking about when I say healthy comfort food. It's healthy enough (carrots, spinach) but comfort-foodie enough (because this girl grew up on meat and taters and I'll never feel satisfied by a diet of all steamed veggies and quinoa!!)

New project in the works for Abby?? Maybe...

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

took lemons and made lemon squares


On my pre-Christmas trip to H-E-B, life gave me lemons. I needed one lemon for the lemon sage chicken, but I had to buy a bag of about 15 organic lemons because that was the only thing they had left. Mom gave me a Martha Stewart cookies calendar that came with 12 cookie recipes for Christmas--one of which was for lemon squares, so I made them tonight. I have a killer cold and can't smell at all, so I also pretty much can't taste... I'm pretty sure these are some REALLY lemony lemon squares, but I'll get back to you when I have a fully functioning upper respiratory tract :).

Monday, December 26, 2011

de-Christmases the apartment




I pretty much hate Christmas. I guess I would rather embrace the little things than be forced into mandatory fun, pressure to cook and decorate, and present-purchasing. I do enjoy the family time involved though, and had a great Christmas this year. Still, I was anxious to de-Christmas the apartment ASAP.

I took apart our pretty flower arrangement, took out all the red flowers and Christmas tree boughs, and re-assembled it. I took down all the Christmas decorations and put up some pretty new non-holiday ones. All this was fueled by a homemade whole-wheat bagel that I baked yesterday...

Also included in pictures today-- The slice I acquired when prepping lemon slices for my lemon-sage chicken yesterday. Woops!!

Sunday, December 25, 2011

our first Christmas dinner






Lemon sage chicken, sweet potatoes, onion rings, and table settings from Crate and Barrel and Williams-Sonoma :).

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Thumb print cookies

I was trying to make linzer cookies but something went so wrong with this dough recipe from The Silver Palate. I improvised and made drop cookies with thumb prints filled with raspberry jam :).

Monday, October 10, 2011

Even Julia Child Ruins Dinner Sometimes :)

I am reading "The Kitchen Counter Cooking School" by Kathleen Flinn (who also wrote "The Sharper Your Knife, the Less You Cry" which I just read). I came across this quote today, which I think warrants a post. Kathleen Flinn is a Cordon Bleu Paris trained chef. Her first book is about her time in Paris, and her second book is about her time teaching 9 women how to cook. In this quote, she is speaking to Donna, an otherwise confident newlywed who is reduced to a shaky mess when cooking for company:

"'Hey, I screw things up and I went to culinary school,' I said, approaching her. I gave her a quick hug around the shoulder. 'I burned toast this morning. I overcooked a steak the other night. I mean, it happens. Even Julia Child screwed up sauces and dropped potatoes, right on TV.'"

I have to say, the frequency of complete failure for me has actually increased as I have learned to cook. As I start to try ingredients that I have never worked with and more complicated recipes, I occasionally make something that leads to a string of cuss words, an incoming rescue by my wonderful dish-washing husband, and a pot of boiled spaghetti with a jar of Newman's Own for dinner.

Throughout my experience with learning how to cook, my mom (also a Cordon Bleu trained chef) has been a great help. She is a 24-hour cooking advice hotline and has helped me avert many a disaster (what can I substitute? why is this burning? will this recipe work??). Even when dinner is already ruined and there isn't any advice left to give, she tells me what Kathleen told Donna. Even the best cooks in the world still screw it up sometimes. This is classic mom advice, but also means a lot coming from a trained chef.

And here I go getting all sentimental. This is a big part of what cooking does for me. Even when I first started I noticed this. It is so therapeutic to have a domain in life where it is okay to screw up. Where even a total failure isn't a huge disaster. Having spent so much of my life in competitive school and work environments, with constant worry and stress about whether my efforts would get me to the next level, it is so heavenly to have one thing where I can take risks and fully enjoy my successes and happily learn from my mistakes. This is a lesson that I have carried over into other parts of my life and I hope to continue to do so. But it will always be one of the things that has me utterly addicted to cooking.